Triad: Heart
Purpose: Love and service
Quest: To be loved
Lessons: Unconditional/unselfish love, pride, action without expectation of reward
Values: Significance, intimacy
Talents: Service to others, compassion, pure love, humility
Challenge: Passive aggression
Fear: Not being loved
Childhood parental dynamics: Ambivalent to father
Healthy: Empathetic, caring, compassionate, concerned for others, sincere, warm, appreciative, encouraging, generous, helpful, loving, thoughtful, saintly, humble, tuned in to how people feel
Average: Need to be needed, intrusive, meddlesome, interfering with others “to help”, want others to depend on them, overbearing
Unhealthy: Resentful of others, complaining, manipulative, “poor me” victim, possessive, hysterical, martyr
Roles: Nurse, social worker, rock star groupie, administrative/executive assistant, mother archetype
Examples: Mary Magdalene, Radar O’Reilley (M*A*S*H), Edith Bunker (All in the Family), Mr. Smithers (Simpsons), Nancy Reagan, Mother Teresa, Gandhi, Eleanor Roosevelt, Leo Buscaglia, Mr. Rogers, Florence Nightengale, Jewish mother stereotype
